Family Dynamics mentoring

Being a mother is one of the most important jobs in the world as we are healing past generations and creating the future generations.  Let’s support each other through the biggest initiation of our lives so we don’t feel alone and isolated. We all deserve to feel loved, seen, heard and safe.

My current story …….

I am a mum and have been for 25years! Over half my life …I still find this hard to believe!  I have been passionate and dedicated to my role and wanted to be the best mum I could.  In the earlier years of motherhood some alarms bells rang ……How could I be the best mum to my children If I was filled with overwhelming emotions, fear, anxiety, self-doubt etc.  What most parents want is for their kids to be happy, love themselves and be confident with who they are right? Then it hit me like a tonne of bricks how could they be all those things if I wasn’t! I could see my emotions and fears were becoming my children’s and that is certainly not what I wanted for them! ….. So, the self-development journey began I studied, I learnt many different healing modalities, I gathered tools, I dove deep into my emotions and had some bloody good therapy sessions along the way.

All these things and more have supported me to move through my overwhelming emotions, shift old patterns, beliefs, and programs so I wasn’t projecting my “stuff “onto my kids, and I was now leading by example with self-love, honest communication, and confidence. Over the years I have built a solid foundation within myself, and this has helped me create a safe home, filled with unconditional love, laughter, affection, respect, acceptance of each other and most importantly good communication!  This has not been an easy road and there have been many mistakes and challenges along the way, and there will be more!  however, all these experiences the good and the bad have helped us grow together as a unified family.

My 25-year career has now ended in many ways, my baby has turned 18 which brought up many emotions for me! I no longer have a dependent child just three young adults navigating their way through their own lives which fills my heart which so much pride and joy.  This has now given me the space to shift my focus and direct my passion into the wider community, supporting other mums, the relationship they have with themselves, their children, and the family dynamics in their home. I want to share my lived experiences and all the tools I have learnt along the way and my hope is that this will help other families become more unified and connected.

It is my mission to support mums and families to love themselves well to communicate well so everyone feels safe, seen and heard just as they are.

Love yourself WELL, Love your families WELL

Melinda